Girls - what would you do if you became pregnant?

I'm feeling all broody...

How long have you been with bf? Is he at Cambridge too?

3 Years. He is living in Cambridge at the moment and will start art college in September.

I'm feeling all broody...

Thweet Longest relationship=6 months. Shortest relationship=2 hours. Not a very good track record What would you say the ''secret'' of a lasting relationship is? So cliched I know-it's what all magazines seem to write about nowadays!

Asking if they're a cat or dog person right away

Ummmm I don't know really. I think you can by knowing that:
you are comfortable with someone
you will put them first and know they will do the same
if you argue, it doesn't matter because they will understand it isn't what you're always like and if you say something in a temper, you don't mean it
you love that person more than anything else


<is feeling very loved up and emotional at the moment>

One thing that really pisses me off is Bush. Has anyone heard how hes pledged something like $127 MILLION US Dollars for sex education - providing its all about abstinence and doesn't mention options like abortion. When I read this in the newspaper, I could not BELIEVE it. Does he really think that's going to help the huge number of teen pregnancies in the US? I already thought the man was an idiot, and this just proves my point. Of COURSE teenagers are going to be having sex, and not knowing how to prevent pregnancy or STD's is not going to help at all. If Bush gets re-elected in November, it will be proof that America is out of its mind.

By the way, I didn't actually tell my parents that I had an abortion. I managed to keep the whole thing underwraps and do it almost entirely by myself...except my boyfriend was there for me...truth was though he was even more scared than I was. I was more pissed about not being able to eat for 12 hours beforehand and lying to my parents.

They actually found out when my mum went through some personal things looking for dirty socks and found the letter and the bottle of codeine, she cried she wasn't angry. She was upset I hadn't told her, then a few weeks later she shouted about it to my dad. He cried as well. They were actually very proud with me after I explained what happened and how brave I was. Not once did I shed a tear for the situation I was in (only in pain), not because I am heartless but because I realised the implications.

It's annoying though because it's still a rather taboo subject in our household, whenever something about abortion comes up on tv my dad looks at me to check my reaction. Even though it was a year ( a week and 4 days ago)

I've always been pro-abortion and I've always felt that I could deal with it no problem, but now I'm not sure. I'd hate to keep it from my parents, but I live quite far away from them now and it's easier to say something like that over the phone! You must have felt quite lonely until they found out - are you glad that they know now?

Not really, it's not had any consequences that are bad. My parents certainly realise I'm a grown up now...but it's rather ....I dunno. it's like a black mark against my name.

I'm the wild child

if it happened to me id have to keep it because i could never be responsable for killing another human being whether they are born or not also i know who the father would be and i would never give up something we created.