sign for Istikhara

I prayed Istikhara for marriage 3 times and hadn't witnessed any signs, no dreams, no positive feeling. However, the past 2 days I've gotten very ill - so should I take this as a sign to decline the proposal?

It’s a dream in which you see a sign so this is in two ways to decide whether declining or not is right although if you have become ill and that’s what you think is your sign and response to your Istikhara prayer then decline

I did have a dream only after the 2nd time, where I saw myself in a hospital and then the 3rd time again in the hospital and then I got ill after.

Is it possible to ask somone else to read Istikhara on my behalf? Or does it only work/signs shown when doing it yourself?

I prayed Istikhara for marriage 3 times and hadn't witnessed any signs, no dreams, no positive feeling. However, the past 2 days I've gotten very ill - so should I take this as a sign to decline the proposal?

Wouldn't the sign be that you love the person making the proposal and you want to spend the rest of your lives together?

Wouldn't the sign be that you love the person making the proposal and you want to spend the rest of your lives together?

If the dream is a positive then it’s a sign that yes the proposal should be an acceptance if it’s a negative then no rejection

Not that directly, it depends on how a person wants to take the sign. It can be sometimes as little as the initial of both spouses at the beggining and end of a number plate. But I was a little confused

I once dreamt i was in a Terminator film with Arnold Schwarzenegger. Didn't mean anything; it was a dream...

Interesting dream @Surnia though it’s a special and quite significant prayer that at a time to establish whether something is a positive or a negative and you need a message from the almighty, the all merciful and the all powerful Allah whatever the outcome maybe positive or not it’s all due to Istikhara prayer and that one dream.

Why do you need to decide whether or not to marry someone based on a dream? It could all go horribly wrong. Why not decide if you love the person in real life?

I once dreamt i was in a Terminator film with Arnold Schwarzenegger. Didn't mean anything; it was a dream...

Spouses are already married. Have you actually had a proposal and, if so, is it love?

Why do you need to decide whether or not to marry someone based on a dream? It could all go horribly wrong. Why not decide if you love the person in real life?

Did you pray Istikhara beforehand; the sign is related to the question you asked/situation

yes I have, no.

Personally I think love comes after marriage. Love to me is when you go through trials and hardships together and stay strong, fight together and pray to Allah subhanawatallah together .

Why would you marry someone you don't love? You don't know how they will react to difficulties.

It's not entirely based on a dream - its just what people commonly see their sign in that form.

It could not go horriblely wrong because we are asking our All Knowing Allah Subhanawatallah, we are asking his guidance - the whole point of the prayer.